tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5592111183936213093.post6774779984204537827..comments2023-04-30T15:12:47.596+00:00Comments on Lisa's Stitching Addiction: Any Ideas?Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07182572208830060896noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5592111183936213093.post-83835493293038890262007-09-24T19:25:00.000+00:002007-09-24T19:25:00.000+00:00I can't say I've had that problem, Marion has alwa...I can't say I've had that problem, Marion has always loved going into nursery, reception and now school.<BR/><BR/>We don't actually get to go in with them, they line up in their class line and the teacher comes out to get them when the whistle goes.<BR/><BR/>I did have a friend who had that problem and like Claire said he was doing it for his Mum's attention, if anyone else took him to school he went in no problem at all (it turns out he has aspergers syndrome and it was emotional blackmail he was using).<BR/><BR/>The more you stay and try and calm her down, the more she'll cry and want you to stay.<BR/><BR/>Hope Erin settles quickly for you.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10686789884542641389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5592111183936213093.post-24834863978366598542007-09-22T13:56:00.000+00:002007-09-22T13:56:00.000+00:00To be honest Lisa you are best just leaving her. I...To be honest Lisa you are best just leaving her. I agree totally with Claire. I did that with Abigail as she was tearful for a few days when she first started and it's the only way. If you give them too much fuss etc it'll only make things worse. {{{{hugs}}}}Sallyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08883231391662433334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5592111183936213093.post-90864930599218338522007-09-19T13:39:00.000+00:002007-09-19T13:39:00.000+00:00Here's my two pennyworth Lisa. Has she made a fri...Here's my two pennyworth Lisa. Has she made a friend at school, if so maybe you could arrange with the friends mum to meet up at the school gate and go in together. If she is happy chatting with a friend she is less likely to bother. <BR/><BR/>Its quite common, nothing to worry about and the more she thinks it is worrying you the longer it is lible to last.Stitchingrannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06006141649328382137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5592111183936213093.post-28751725470053974002007-09-18T11:58:00.000+00:002007-09-18T11:58:00.000+00:00sometimes Lisa you have to be cruel to be kind, i ...sometimes Lisa you have to be cruel to be kind, i agree with the others i'm afraidJuliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13863899802782756191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5592111183936213093.post-49906249408295778482007-09-17T22:27:00.000+00:002007-09-17T22:27:00.000+00:00I know it's not what you want to hear but I agree ...I know it's not what you want to hear but I agree with Claire. I have worked in a playgroup before and it is very rare for a child to still be upset long after the parent leaves. Just keep on reassuring her you love her and will be back for her when school finishes. I know how hard it is as Jack really struggled last year with bullying and not coping well will reading & writing and I was dreading him going back after the holidays but he is 100% happier now. Kids know which buttons to press and although I don't doubt she might be feeling a little insecure because everything is so new right now but I bet she enjoys it really :) Why don't you hang around out of sight and ask her teacher to send someone out when she has calmed down so at least you can go off with peace of mind. Or ask her to draw her teacher a nice picture or something the night before and tell her the teacher will be so pleased with it etc that hopefully she wont be able to wait to get through the door to give it to her.<BR/><BR/>Hope it all works out. I am speaking as a parent as also as a person that works with kids so I know both sides and although it is very hard it will be ok in the end!<BR/><BR/>Hugs<BR/>Dawn xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5592111183936213093.post-52770001142472841452007-09-17T19:45:00.000+00:002007-09-17T19:45:00.000+00:00Lisa, you are honestly just best leaving her. She...Lisa, you are honestly just best leaving her. She is probably doing it for your benefit and she has probably stopped crying before you reach the school gates!<BR/>Dont fuss when you get her to school, just take her coat off, and get bag sorted out, or whatever you do and then just leave her with the teacher. Phone during the day to how she is doing...<BR/><BR/>When she realises that this is how it is, then she will probably settle down.<BR/><BR/>Hugs<BR/>Claire - the pre-school assistant who is dealing with lots of crying kids at pre-school!!Clairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06180233992557351653noreply@blogger.com